I never learned to drive, so I take transit

I am running a tad late this morning. It happens once in a while. There were train issues. I rely on public transit and unfortunately these things happen. I never learned to drive. My older brother took me around the court once, but that was the extent of it. I could have taken lessons, but … Continue reading I never learned to drive, so I take transit

Got to keep moving

It's seven o'clock in the morning and the sun is rising. It's near the end of January, so I think this is probably standard for this time of year. I never noticed before, so I cannot say otherwise. Whether it is, or is not, it is nice to observe. It's a brisk morning though and one can feel the chill in the air. … Continue reading Got to keep moving

I don’t like asking for help

Three days ago, I wrote about work load and stressing out. It occurred to me afterwards that the reason I take on such unrealistic amount of work, or why I hate to quit something I am doing is that I don't like to ask for help, or I don't want to admit I can't do … Continue reading I don’t like asking for help

My complete coming out story

I've written about parts of this in other posting here on this blog, but I haven't put the whole story together. I first came out to myself where I really admitted to myself that I preferred guys over girls. I hated myself. I tried to pray it away - God, how I tried. I cried … Continue reading My complete coming out story

Depression and life

I just listened to a TEDx talk on suicide and life. Once upon a time, I could not do this. I am told quite often that I am a strong person. They say this because I have dealt with having a disability, so well. And if I am honest, in some ways they are correct. … Continue reading Depression and life

Do or do not, there is no try

"Do or do not, there is no try." Yoda When one has a physical limitation, or any limitation, these are words to live by. Unfortunately, in real life one discovers there are limitations as to what one is realistically able to do. I may not always succeed, but I always give everything I do or … Continue reading Do or do not, there is no try